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Thursday, November 28, 2019

Richard Ford's Thanksgiving happiness

LISTEN. Around Thanksgiving every year I pick up one of my favorite novels, Richard Ford's Lay of the Land (#3 in his wonderful Frank Bascombe trilogy, before it became a tetralogy). It takes place around Thanksgiving, c.2000. "Thanksgiving ought to be the versatile, easy-to-like holiday, suitable to the secular and religious... [it] won't be ignored. Americans are hard-wired for something to be thankful for. Our national spirit thrives on invented gratitude."

Here's one of Frank's ruminations on happiness, recalling a "shining moment of glory that was instantly gone" when he caught a foul ball and impressed his kid. I can almost totally relate... but can't agree that "happy is a lot of hooey." (Though of course the way a lot of us talk about it is.)

Image result for andre dawson“The kind of happy I was that day at the Vet when "Hawk" Dawson actually doffed his red "C" cap to me, and everyone cheered and practically convulsed into tears - you can't patent that. It was one shining moment of glory that was instantly gone. Whereas life, real life, is different and can't even be appraised as simply "happy", but only in terms of "Yes, I'll take it all, thanks" or "No, I believe I won't." Happy, as my poor father used to say, is a lot of hooey. Happy is a circus clown, a sitcom, a greeting card. Life, though, life's about something sterner. But also something better. A lot better. Believe me.”

Ford on Fresh Air...

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